Monday Jan 03, 2022

Menopause with Friends -- Sexual Awakening after Menopause: Embracing the Divine Feminine with Mary Tobias

In this episode with Mary Tobias, we discuss: 

  • The wackiness of the peri-menopausal period may be the universe (or your body) is telling you to “pay attention to this now”
  • Menopause can be a time of rediscovery, of finding new ways to care for yourself
  • Mary’s discovery of Tantra and Sacred Sexuality
  • If you want a vibrant life later in life, all you have to do is want it and make that decision - because you can work with the changes in your body
  • Words matter — pay attention to the words that our culture uses around women and sexuality — and find a new way to speak about those concepts, issues, or even parts
  • We have to take our personal desires, our wants, our opportunities for empowerment into our own hands, because our culture is not going to give it to us
  • Finding an inclusive tantric community
  • What the Divine Feminine means to Mary
  • How to tap into a receptive state
  • Moving away from a masculine approach to diet and exercise and tapping into the divine feminine in terms of how we care for our bodies
  • What “enough” feels like
  • How relationships change with growth
  • Discussion about clearing away trauma, and cultural conditioning, exploring the duality of our nature
  • Talking about with teenagers
  • The role of the crone in society - humans and killer whales
  • The role of self-pleasure in the discovery and deepening of orgasms   



Resources:
Justin Gottlieb  @tantriclovecoach on Instagram

Amanda Ananda thetantricmama.com

Loudes Starshower tantrichealerflorida.com

Cathleene Cienfuegos bliss-life.com

Maria Merloni therapyden.com or mariamerloni.com






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